Frequently Asked Questions
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Therapy with me is warm, collaborative, and grounded in the belief that you deserve to feel safe, seen, and accepted exactly as you are. You do not have to arrive with the right words, a polished version of your story, or a plan for fixing everything.
We will make room for whatever you bring, including pain, uncertainty, humor, frustration, hope, or even silence. I will offer support, honest reflection, and practical guidance without judgment or pressure. Therapy is serious work, but it does not have to feel cold, clinical, or painfully formal. We are allowed to be human here. -
Finding the right therapist is about more than credentials or a list of treatment methods. You should feel respected, understood, and comfortable enough to be honest, even when honesty is difficult.
I may be a good fit if you are looking for a therapist who is compassionate, open-minded, and willing to explore both traditional and complementary approaches to healing. I work with people seeking support with trauma, grief, addiction, anxiety, life transitions, personal growth, or end-of-life concerns.
Our free consultation will give us an opportunity to decide together whether the relationship feels right. If I am not the best fit for your needs, I will be honest about that and help connect you with another provider.
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The first session is a chance for us to get acquainted without expecting you to unpack your entire life in an hour. We will talk about what brings you to therapy, your goals, and any previous experiences with therapy that may help me understand your needs.
I will also explain how I work, answer your questions, and discuss possible next steps. You are always welcome to ask about a therapeutic approach, express a concern, or tell me when something does not feel comfortable.
You do not need to prepare anything unless you would find it helpful. Showing up is enough.
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That is completely okay and very common. You do not need to diagnose yourself or choose a treatment method before contacting me. That is something we can explore together.
We will begin with what you are experiencing, what you would like help with, and what feels manageable. From there, I can recommend approaches that may fit your needs and explain them in plain language. Therapy is not a test, and there is no prize for arriving with all the answers.
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Feeling nervous about therapy is understandable, especially if you are discussing painful experiences, have felt judged in the past, or are not accustomed to asking for help.
You control what you share and when you share it. I will never expect you to reveal everything immediately or push you into work for which you do not feel ready. Trust develops over time, and we will move at a pace that respects your comfort, boundaries, and emotional safety.
You may cry, laugh, become quiet, lose your train of thought, or have no idea where to begin. All of that is welcome.
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We will decide together. I may recommend an approach based on your concerns, goals, history, and current needs, but therapy is always collaborative. I will explain what an approach involves, why I believe it may help, and what alternatives are available.
You will never be pressured to use a particular method. We can adjust the pace, combine approaches when appropriate, or change direction if something does not feel helpful. Your feedback is an important part of the process.